Shina Sawhney

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Most rappers always complain about groupies. “Groupies only want me for my money.” “Groupies see the nice car pull up to the club & they wanna go home with me.” Blah Blah Blah Yet these groupies are the sort of women that most rappers are most linked to. How does that make sense? If you know she was a bobblehead who would do anything to get some nice expensive stuff out of you, & you still dealt with her, you have no right to complain you fucking moron. You went into it WITH all the cards layed out for you. You are the idiot. Womp.

I feel like in rap the basis of the “she fucked me & got something nice” is just high end prostitution that is glamorized by expensive shoes, cars, mansions & brand name shit. If we see a prostitute who works on the corner who gets paid in cash, shes a prostitute. Yet when we look at the groupies of hiphop, who similarly fuck for expensive things /cash, we dont see them as prostitutes, we just see them as groupies, or now days due to reality shows, we actually somehow see them as being “ok women”. Really, what is the difference of a woman fucking for money on your local city corner different from a woman fucking a rapper/athlete for a nice pair of Christian Louboutins?  Is “oh well she got something better out of it” your response? If so, you are the idiot, because you failed to realize the dignity of both women lost, you chose to look at the nicer things one can get materialistically. Which is why most people cant make out that both women are in the same position no matter what the ‘profit’ is.

-Shina 

First of all, it is not “reality.”
That is not “real life.”

Second of all, no one that I know in real life acts like that, & if they do they are shunned & sort of labeled as “crazy” …not commended for their actions.

Third of all, It is scripted, but my issue is these scripts are become reality for young women who do not know any better. 

Last week I said to myself “I cant judge these shows if i never gave them a chance” so I sat painfully through love & hip hop / Kardashian show. I was disgusted. 

Love & Hiphop= These are grown ass women who dont seem to do shit other than sit around, drink alcohol, look to marry rich rappers/athletes and look for reasons to get into arguments / physical fights. & the worst thing is people in my age group, 18-24 year old women eat that shit up! They come home sit around the TV & watch this garbage, then post their comments on twitter / facebook. It is amazing to me that grown ass women who are mothers on this show still pose in magazines with their asses/titties out & can not settle their differences with other women without punching someone in the face. It is a disgrace. & the youth who watch this are clearly being influences because fighting & recording that shit to get it onto WorldStar is now a trend. & also, posing with your ass/titties out on worldstar, & tumblr is a trend as well. Then the sort of content that they talk about is ridiculous. It is too personal to be out on NATIONAL TELEVISION.

Kardashian show = I can not stand it. They advertise to young women with their clothing line in sears. Young women are their marketing target & yet you have Kim get on national television discussing whether should be on birth control or not. really? This is a personal issue that is to be discussed between you and your ‘husband’ in private…not in front of 12/13 year old who look to you as a role model because of your fashion sense. then on some trip Kim is talking about she is just starting to see small things in Kris. Well, call me crazy, but when you marry someone, it is a LIFE LONG COMMITMENT. & in order to successfully determine whether you two be a pair for life long terms, you need to determine whether you can live with those annoying little small things they do BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED TO THEM. You don’t date someone for 5 months & get married. Idiot.
All these women are disgusting to me. They talk about personal things on national television. They in my opinion attribute the “ass/titties n that’s it” stigma that follows mostly all women around. & the worst part of all of this is, I must be a minority with the things I say in this post because the shows & still up n’ running….meaning majority of people find this shit as entertainment…

-Shina 

We are still in that transition phase, us college students. We’ve only been out of high school for but so long & are still figuring out how things work in the adult world. With that being said, to the ones who still blatantly participate in high school behavior…please, take that shit somewhere else. I had problems with people in high school, just like the rest of us, difference is I no longer hold onto that shit because I realize it was stupid as fuck. Back then, we all had the time to kick around dumb shit. Back then, no matter how mature we thought we were, we weren’t. Back then, we didn’t have enough sense to pick out battles wisely, so we fought all of them & created some extra useless battles for ourselves along the way. But at this point, post high school, I have “real” things to worry about. Such as what masters program I want to apply to & what I need to do to get into it. Such as, how much longer I have to be in school total until my PhD program is complete. Such as, what internship programs are best suited for my field, so that after getting my degree I have a career, not a job. I am more concerned with creating a financially stable career for myself than mean mugging some female at the mall. These are the types of things that now consume my mind, please keep note of this when you see me out & about. Whether it is at the mall, a restaurant, the aquarium, WHEREVER, if we had a problem back then, just know I no longer care anymore about those issues. & if something I did/said back then still gets under your skin till’ this day, please by all means approach me respectfully & like women we can settle it and move forward with our lives. I have no issues apologizing for my past immature behaviors. but If you want to mug me, talk shit, blah blah blah, by all means, you are welcome to do so, just please understand in advance it is a waste of your time since I will not entertain nor participate in that foolishness.

”The man who views the world at 50 the same as he did at 20 has wasted 30 years of his life….”

With Love,
Shina