March 2011
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Glimpse of true love at chick fil a.
I was sitting in the window seat of Chick-Fil-A. This older foreign couple rode up on bikes. They were sweaty, didn’t seem like they were “well off” , raggedy clothes, but both of them were undoubtedly glowing, and I don’t mean the glisten from the sweat. The energy I felt from them is nearly indescribable. Anyways, so the woman goes to sit down and the man goes up and buys...
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Ok, lets think.
Why is it now days people feel the need to take mad extra, complicated routes to simple destinations. Why tap someones phone, when you can just ask with whom they are speaking with. Why sit in an unmarked car across the street, when you can just ask where they been. Why make a fake Facebook when you can just ask if they are cheating…
“well what happened if he lies shina” fuck...
About me? Mmkay.
Im 18. lived in Maryland all my life. Hated baltimore with a passion because i saw no growth or progress. Moved to Columbia, loved the diversity and peacefulness here. Was deciding between IT/ Psychology major. Figured out a way to do both. Going for a IT bachelors with psychology minor. Then im going to go on to do my masters at Johns Hopkins in Psychology. and probably go on to get a PHD after...
"I always fall...for your type.."
People generally have a type and that fine, but use some logic. Clearly if you continue to chase after one ‘type’ of person and keep ending up with the same results, you need to make some changes. See people ‘fit’ together based off of likes, common interests, the ability to have fun with each other, and ETC. Now if you can only do SOME of those things with a person for a...
Trusting in relationships.
I notice many people say to their significant other “I trust you but I don’t trust them”. Your right, to an extent. You shouldn’t trust people you don’t know but neither should you penalize your significant other for YOUR mistrust. See you can’t stop other people from being attracted to, liking, or flirting with your significant other. As much as it sucks...
Rejection.
”Rejection. All human beings to some extent fear it” - Susan.
This got the ball rolling in my head. Yes, we are all afraid to some extent of rejection. We on a general note want people to like, love and appreciate us across the board. We tend to forget though that rejection is not always on us. What i mean by that is there is not always something wrong with YOU b/c someone rejected...
Wisdom from the old man :-)
“An argument only goes as far as your response. If you stop responding, eventually they will stop talking, and if they don’t they are crazy because they are talking to themselves”- My Father
Thin Line Between Love & Hate.
I figured that since Im a nice, forgiving person, if i just hate the people who ever did me wrong, i wont be nice to them or forgive them. I figured if i could turn all the love i had for them into hate, my life would be much easier. Wrong. See, when we hate people we once loved, we only hate them because we still love them. That may seem crazy, but to me its true. The people who did me wrong, i...
Choose carefully.
We grow to love and really care for some people. Although those people may be nice,caring, they love us back, and are genuinely kind hearted, doesn’t mean we keep them the closest to our hearts. Even the nicest of people can have the worst of problems. These problems can easily become your problems because you care about the person. This is ok to an EXTENT. Caring and loving and wanting to...
deeper than skin deep.
I dont see beauty in what other people see beauty in. They see a really ‘cute’ or ‘fine’ guy and automatically want to date him. I dont. I really like speaking to, and getting to know someone first. I think a friendship is waaay more important than a relationship. Really taking the time to build a friendship with someone builds the foundation to a great relationship. See,...
Write it.
I ADORE hand written letters. I keep all of them. I go back and read and read and read them. They mean the world to me. The candy will be eaten. The flowers will soon die. The jewelry gets rusted. The new car eventually breaks down. But the ink stained on that paper will forever live, long beyond after I’m gone.
Don’t buy me, write to me.
Im not them.
I want to speak to you. but people probably talk you to death all the time. I want to ask you out to coffee. but other people probably ask you out all the time. I want to exchange thoughts. But it seems like everyone else already picks your brain I want to spend time. But you have a million places to be… I want to open my heart up. But whats the point if yours is shut closed? I want to play...
Happy 7 Terrence =)
Ive really been best friends with you for 7 years? wow. “Pause” *in my nicki voice* hahahaI really cant believe you know every single thing about me in detail. If you were like karren Steffens and wrote a book about me, my life would be OVERRRR. lmao cause you know it ALLLLL.I remeber calling you about every little thing since the 7th grade. All the problems i had, why i didnt get to...
7 years!
I woke up this morning to this beautiful note my best friend had wrote me celebrating our 7 years of being the bestest friends the world has ever seen…=)
“Well
Throughout our long, exciting and I may say awesome friendship, you have been the one person I could release my anger, depression, pain, joy, well everything to…This month makes it ummmm seven years right?…Feel...
Be still. Very Still..
Dont talk. Dont make noise. I dont want to hear any of it. Dont use your lips. Dont kiss me. Just wrap your arms around me, and let us both sit. I want to just think about what you could be possibly thinking about. I want to hear your throughts, raw. See, when you speak, you put it in a way you know id like to hear it. But i dont want that. Just sit still… And let me listen to your...
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If you cant, for the life of you two, work it out…then just please leave each other the fuck alone. If your not happy, if your always fightings, if you don’t feel right anymore, just go. Its much better to leave that situation and do better for the both of you than to hold both of yourselves back from reaching full potential. You may really love someone, but that single trait alone...
take it all. here.
you want the car? you can have it. you want me to buy you new clothes? lead me to your favorite store you want me to cook you the best dinner ever? tell me your favorite food you need me to be there? you dont even have to ask. you need a shoulder to cry on? think of mine as a kleenex you need to get your darkest secret out? my heart is open to listen and not judge Everything you want, need,...
We are everyone around us.
Growing up, we learned everything through other people. Our parents taught us this, we picked up this habit from such and such. So basically we in total are just little clusters of other people. Other people put us through situations to teach us lessons. Other people showed us things for us to comprehend how to accomplish them. So in the big scheme of life, no one ever bites “one...
Patience is so important.
With patience, things work out how they are meant to work out. With patience, we learn to wait for good things, not expect them immediately.
When have you ever read a book where the WHOLE story was spilled upon the first page?! exactly! The story will unravel at its own pace and time…dont mess up fate by chasing things and trying to control them. Let it happen and just trust itll all work...
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Opposites attract? Not Always.
Opposite’s in some way attract. One person may be clumsy and the other sturdy. One person laid back and the other military style. One very outgoing and the other shy. But there are examples that ive found where “alike” people tend to be attracted to each other…
Insecure people- Insecure men or women tend to find other insecure men or women. See if a man isinsecure, he will...
Really dad?
My father and I were spending some QT today. He told me about this new thing he’s doing. When my mother and him come home from work he has my mother drop him off on the side of the road. ..? Yes drop him off on the side of the road ! and he walks home. I asked my father why he didn’t just use the elliptical we have at home. He said he’s trying to stay healthy but he needs to...
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“Jihad is not a holy war, wheres that in the worship?
Murdering is NOT Islam!...”
– Lupe Fiasco
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Free therapy...?
With the type of PERSONAL information I see floating around the internet carelessly, i have come to the conclusion that social networking is therapy for some people. In therapy, you get EVERYTHING off your chest, you work through problems, you dig deep within yourself to see the root of your issue, which now days people apparently do on Face Book/Twitter and whatever blog they use. I’m happy...
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3 simple rules to a happy you!
1. Learn to say no. 2. Do NOT, under ANY circumstances take shit from anyone 3. Once you do # one and two, you may lose friends, but the people who werent using you will stick around and EVERYONE will respect you more.
A wonderful woman by the name of Susan taught me this, and trust, it works.
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Call the doctor... quick! quick! quick!
I always tell people: do not try and give someone else a ‘taste of their own medicine’ unless you are a certified doctor. What i mean by that is - many people try to seek revenge on others, its human, when we are hurt, we want them to hurt just as bad or worst. Key is, if your seeking revenge, please dont half ass it lol For instance, many women try and get their man back for cheating...
